Getting Your Toddler To Sleep
When you are raising a young child, one challenge
you run into is getting your toddler to sleep at night. When he doesn't go to
bed, neither do you. The results are a cranky toddler and an exhausted parent.
As a parent you will suffer from sleep deprivation at some point. Even if you
have a baby that sleeps through the night early on, you will eventually have to deal with
getting your toddler sleep.
Unfortunately every parenting expert out there has their own opinion on how to
best get your toddler into a good sleeping routine. It’s enough to leave a
new parent wondering what’s the right thing to do?
Here are a few tips:
Listen to your instincts. Remember you know your toddler best. Take all advice you
get (including this one) for what it is, “advice”. None of this is "the right"
answer or written in stone. You know your child best and only YOU know what’s really right
for him. If it feels right to rock your toddler to sleep, then do it. If it feels
right to bring your child into bed with you (and both you and your spouse are ok
with this), then go ahead.
Stop feeling guilty and relax. It is normal for you to feel instant
guilt when your toddler cries. You may be worrying if he's hungry, needing to go
to the bathroom or may be scared. Maybe he just doesn't want to go to sleep and
is just using crying as a way to get your attention.
Remember your toddler could be crying for a number of reasons and some are out of
your control. children cry to have their needs met. Sometimes they will
use crying to try to get what they want (staying up longer). Sometimes
those needs are just to simply cry it out for a bit while feeling the warmth and
comfort of their most loved person … you!
Become an expert. Go online or to the library and read a few books on kid's sleep
and sleep patterns. This will give you all the basic knowledge you need so that when others come your way offering advice
on how to get your toddler to bed at night, you can politely say you know exactly
what you’re doing. More importantly, you will feel confident as a parent, and
little comments about what you should be doing instead, won't leave you insecure
and wondering if you should try something else.
When reading advice don’t go for the latest books or fads. Go to the library and
look for actual children sleep research. Then sit down and make a list of what
ideas make sense to you. What do you feel is right for you and your family? This could be
more important than any book you read on the subject of toddler sleep. Speak to
your spouse and make sure you agree on what method you’ll use.
Whatever you decide, the main thing to remember is that sleepless nights are
part of having a toddler. Do what feels best for you and remember that this is a
normal phase of your toddler’s development and will soon end.
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